Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Today's deep thoughts...

I know I just posted two days ago, but maybe I am just feeling the need to connect with people since I haven't talked to many in person lately! :)

I realized something last night... even though staying home sick has been hard, we are starting to enjoy the slower pace. I thought the kids would get really antsy, but as long as they have my attention and affection, they really don't care! They have more time to explore the world on their own terms and use their imaginations, and I have been trying to follow their lead rather than boss them from one thing to the next. Something I have been working on lately is being in the moment and enjoying my family, rather than worrying about getting things done. Mike even noticed the change and said I seem more relaxed and happier.

Ella was so cute reading on Maddie's bed this morning.

Lulu (Ladybug Girl) and Bingo watched cartoons together.

I heard this recently: "Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.” We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us."-President Monson (Finding Joy in the Journey)

Can I just say I am so thankful for the purpose and perspective of the gospel. Life would be a lot harder without it.

5 comments:

Landon and Dana said...

hmmmmm, that was nice. :) i feel better

Jillian said...

I miss you!

Jensen's said...

Your introspection is truly beautiful! I'm WOWed :)

(me)linda said...

I loved it, but I did find myself wondering, "but what about the stuff that has to get done?!" I need a lesson on balance. A step by step guide.

Molly and Jason said...

I really love this post. Definitely helps me out in this moment that we're in.