Sunday, July 8, 2012

Girls' Camp 2012

I am struggling with how to encapsulate the incredible experience of camp. It was such a pinnacle experience... the culmination of months of prayer and planning playing out in a beautiful mountain place that felt sacred in itself. The young women in our ward are choice and beautiful (there was no drama all week!), and I loved every moment of being with them, learning about them, and bonding on a deeper level. I love how just leaving the "world" and going to camp allows boundaries and comfort zones to fall away and you can really see into each others hearts. There were also eight leaders and many visitors that were wonderful and did so much to make it an awesome week!

I'm also overwhelmed by the 500 photos I took, but I've tried to choose the best of the best to share. Maybe they'll help me tell the story...

My living room Saturday night... camp started Monday morning and we wanted to avoid loading on the Sabbath. There was a huge windstorm that night so all the gear ended up in my house so it wouldn't get blown away!

The Relief Society fed us a yummy breakfast at the church and then we were on our way to Heber Valley Camp! I love the entrance to camp with the value flags and friendly senior missionaries. From the moment you get there you can feel a special spirit.

We settled into Camp Sariah and staked out our cabins. We shared two cabins that slept twelve girls and four leaders each. I tactfully chose the cabin with the least number of "bouncing beehives" as I like to call them.
   
We passed out the camp sweatshirts (Rock Solid logos) and lanyards and headed over to camp orientation. I love how the sweatshirts made us look so united!

Our camp hosts (senior missionaries) were so cute! They checked on us multiple times a day and answered any questions we had. Of course they also enforced the rules and cleaning checks, but they were so sweet about it. We shared Sariah with the Garland Stake, who had most of the campground, and a couple of Ogden wards, who we shared our pavilion with.  

While we were at orientation Jamie (my right hand lady) decorated camp for us! She was the driving force behind all our graphics... she works for the UVU dean's office and has sweatshirt and printing connections, plus a niece that does graphic design. I would just tell Jamie what I had in mind, and voila...magic!

Another leader is learning photography and I utilized her talents to take "Rockstar" photos of each girl before camp to decorate our Rock Solid Cafe. I absolutely love them! They show such personality and made our camp feel unique.



The first organized activity we did was the Challenge Course, which is built into the Heber Valley experience. I loved this quote posted at the beginning... it was very fun and we did laugh a lot!

This is our awesome YW Prez and one of the cute missionaries who worked at the challenge course.

There were about ten different stations where the girls had to learn various lessons about working together. The missionaries had trained some of us leaders to man the stations, and taught us how to make each station into a spiritual object lesson.


I had one called Traffic Jam where the girls had to figure out how to get their teams to switch sides while only crossing one person at a time, without going backwards. It was easy to get in a traffic jam! Then we likened it to life, and how we can't go backwards to fix our mistakes, but we have Jesus Christ who will pay the price if we let him, and make it possible to get where we are going.

Our Bishop was in charge of Tarzan & Jane. I didn't get to watch it but it looked fun!

The very best part was the huge swing at the end!!!

Here's some cute girls getting harnessed up.



Amber (a leader) was terrified, but she was brave and did it!

These girls pulled us up to the top of the tree, then you release the rope and go flying!!

There were lots of screams and laughs.

Even Bishop did it! He didn't scream like a girl but I loved his fist pump and whoop!

One thing our older girls really know how to do is play games! This is called Samurai and involves lots of funny sounds ninja hollers. It made me laugh so hard my face hurt.

I didn't get a good photo of our camp flag! It was so cool! Every morning and evening we would raise/lower the flag and have a scripture and prayer. It was a good opportunity to hear from some of our younger campers.

Let me pause here and explain a bit more about our Rock theme. There are so many references to rocks in the scriptures and so many talks by church leaders that could tie in that I felt a need to unify them somehow. One day I realized that there were topics that would relate very well with each of the Young Women values, so we developed a "curriculum" with an activity or spiritual lesson for each value. Then we made pins to give to the girls after completing each one, sort of like merit badges. We also made pins for completing the challenge course, the lake, the hike, and certification. I thought the pins turned out really cute, but I didn't realize how much the girls would LOVE them! If someone didn't get one or lost one, they begged me for more.

The first night one of our 6th year YCL's (youth camp leaders) did the fireside on Faith: Christ is the Rock. She presented the scripture that was the basis for our theme, Helamen 5:12: "And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty storm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fall."

She told some touching personal stories and bore a strong testimony. Our youth leaders were awesome-- many of them eagerly volunteered for difficult assignments and carried them off better than I could have hoped. I feel strongly that the older girls should have opportunities to lead, because if we do everything for them it does them no service when they get out in the real world. Our girls definitely rose to the challenge.

The Secret Sister mailbox was so fun! The girls love this tradition of secretly spoiling and getting spoiled.

We saw many deer in and around camp, but the hit was this tiny baby fawn. Its mama camouflaged it in the brush behind one of our cabins and went off to forage for food. We all got pretty close to it but it never moved until mama came back.


We had three crafts for the week. The first was painting prayer rocks to go with the pillowcases we made before camp. The second (above) was making journals for quiet time after each Golden Hour. We just used small legal notebooks and put a scrapbook paper cover and embellishments on the front. It was a hit with the girls and they all turned out so cute and unique!

Tuesday was our turn at the lake. I had heard it was a beautiful "walk" down, but it was more like a steep hike. The way there was all downhill and yet we had quite a few girls peter out... if I had any complaint about the whole week at camp it's that girls these days are kinda wimpy. :) The problem with going down was that they knew going back was all uphill!

I think it was worth it when when we got there... it was beautiful! The girls canoed and the leaders went on paddle boats for an hour. They don't allow swimming because of some bacteria in the water (ewww!).

This group cracked us up... it was the teeniest little beehives in front and the most anti-outdoors girl in the back. Needless to say they had a hard time getting anywhere and were the last ones back to shore.

Tuesday afternoon's Golden Hour was Choice & Accountability: Musical Standards (playing off the rock theme, we talked about choosing good music). That night we had "Rock Star" skits!

We divided into four groups and gave them each a black bag full of costumes and props. I wish I had taken more photos of this because they were all hilarious! The girls are so creative and funny. It made for an entertaining evening.

Rock n' Roll group

Stone Age group

A subject we always came around to at the campfire was "cupcake hands" from TLC's show Toddlers and Tiaras (a few among us were obsessed).

Speaking of campfires, of course we had to have s'mores! The cook kept is simple and used fudge cookies. (Did I mention the ex-YW prez came back to cook for us?? She and another leader planned and did all the food, and kicked me out of the kitchen!)


After Rock Star skits, it was only fitting to have a karaoke night!!!

I borrowed an old school karaoke machine and we sang the night away with High School Musical and Disney.



Loved the karaoke go-go dancers on the tables.

I couldn't let the girls have all the fun... at the end I did some Shania Twain. I'm such a nerd....... but it was fun. That night the girls were wired (can't imagine why?) and not very many leaders got enough sleep!

The next day was Wacky Wednesday! Everyone took this very seriously... these photos speak for themselves.






Later that morning our camp hosts gave us an opportunity for service. We wheelbarrowed a load of gravel around the cabins for keep the dirt down. It was the least we could do for that awesome campground!

Wednesday afternoon was hikes! As I mentioned some of the girls were wimpy and kept asking if the 3 mile lake trip could count as their hike. I finally gave in a little and shortened the hikes: the 1st and 4th years just did a 1 mile loop, and the 2nd and 3rd years did about 3 miles. I love hiking (especially when devoid of complaining!) so I led the longer hike and we had a blast!

These girls were so energetic and fun! We sang songs and laughed along the way.

I think they all felt such a sense of accomplishment making it to the lookout at the top! It was so beautiful up there...  I hope it's something they will remember for a long time.

Our YCL's did two more spiritual presentations on Wednesday. Golden Hour was presented about Divine Nature, on the subject of Joseph Smith and how he called himself a 'rough stone rolling.'
President Hinckley once said, "I am profoundly grateful not only for Joseph Smith as the prophet who served as an instrument in the hands of the Almighty in restoring this work, but also for all of those who have followed him. A study of their lives will reveal the manner in which the Lord has chosen them, has refined them, and has molded them to His eternal purposes. Joseph Smith declared on one occasion: “I am like a huge, rough stone rolling down from a high mountain; … knocking off a corner here and a corner there. Thus I will become a smooth and polished shaft in the quiver of the Almighty." We talked and wrote about divine attributes we want to acquire and how we can be refined by the trials we go through in life.



The evening devotional was taught about Integrity: The Wise Man and the Foolish Man. This talented YCL brought a small handmade wood house and demonstrated what happens when built upon sand versus rock when water washes over it. She also shared a beautiful quote from C.S. Lewis that was so profound: "Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is. After all, you find out the strength of the German army by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later." (from Mere Christianity)

Thursday morning we got up a little early and had a spiritual hike. This idea had special significance to me, because before I was called to be camp director, I read about a beautiful experience a close friend of mine had at Girls' Camp, and I was so touched by it I saved it on my computer, thinking I might someday have a chance to do something similar with youth. Not more than two weeks later I was called to direct camp and knew that the Lord had directed me.

I called it our Rock Hike because we loaded the girls up with rocks. At the beginning they were given an empty bag and told to start down a pathway alone. They came upon difficulties along the path and were loaded with burdens. These were challenges they may really face, such as low self esteem, broken families, temptations in the form of media and peer pressure, and even disease and death of loved ones. They were real burdens, and they were heavy.

Near the end, when their bags were full and breaking, there were a few helpers on the path. They came across "Dad" who could help carry their burdens for a few steps, but had to give them back. At the end the path turned down a steep slope and the "Bishop" was there to give support and lead the girls to the Savior. They came upon an image of Christ in Gethsemane, and were able to lay their burdens at His feet.



Come unto me, 
all ye that are heavy  laden, and I will
give you rest.

Matthew 11:28-29

At this point, each girl was given a testimony letter written by one of her parents and read it quietly. A few eyes were wet and many hearts were touched. It was a powerful visual of the healing and enabling power of the Atonement. 

Another special activity we did was crack geodes, relating it to Individual Worth. Geodes just look like ugly rocks on the outside, but when you open them you "discover the beauty within!"



Now I just have to mention the part of camp that nobody really loves... certification. Luckily I had some awesome helpers and we made it really fun! A leader and a YCL teamed up and took a year (1st, 2nd, etc.) and came up with activities and lessons that would make it interesting.

The 3rd years learned about different types of shelters, as displayed in miniature.

The 1st years went on a nature hike to look and listen in the woods.

The 2nd years did a service actvity and heart attacked everyone.


The 1st years learned to tie knots with licorice ropes.

At the end of the week, our oldest and wisest YCL wrote a script for a mock disaster and the leaders and YCL's acted it out! All the other girls were sent up a trail to assess the carnage and figure out how to get everyone to the top! This leader above was hit on the head by falling rocks.

This one was attacked by a bear.

This one fell from a tree and broke her leg.

I had heatstroke and fainted. One was in shock, another had hypothermia, and others had bee stings and snakebites.


There was lots of blood and screaming, but everyone was given the treatment they needed and made it back safely!

Our last craft related to a Golden Hour on Good Works: Let Your Light Shine. We talked about the Brother of Jared who asked the Lord to touch stones to give him and his family light when they crossed the ocean in dark barges. We were taught about two guiding lights in our lives: loving the Lord, and loving our fellow men. (This article is wonderful.)

We made lanterns with clear stones in them to remind us to let the light of Christ shine through us and to serve and love others.

The whole camp experience culminated on Thursday night with songs around the campfire and a special fireside by our good bishop. He spoke to the girls about the crowning value of the young women theme, Virtue, and about the crowning ordinances of the gospel in the temple. He related the building of the Salt Lake temple foundation with thick granite stones to building a virtuous life that can allow each young woman to be worthy to enter the temple.

This year is the 100th year of Girls' Camp, so we commemorated it by shining 100 lights (including our lanterns) from a high place out into the world to represent our desire to stand for truth and right and let the light of the Savior shine in our lives. It was a beautiful visual depiction of the way these girls are united in goodness and faith. Every young women and many of the leaders shared sweet testimonies... even the little Beehives who had never done it before and were so scared. They encouraged and strengthened each other and everyone was very touched. My heart was so full of love for them and for the gospel that it felt like it would burst!

What better way to end camp than with cobbler and ice cream?

At camp, you discover that the Lord is great. You don't really need much to be happy, and you can do hard things. In nature the Spirit is closer where it is quiet, and you can experience what it feels like to "Be still, and know that I am God."

I feel so privileged to have served the young women. I love Girls' Camp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Sweet Summertime

Nothing says summer like swimsuits, sprinklers, slides, and watermelon.


 This boy loooooooves watermelon. He ate every piece down to the rind.Yummy!


Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Good Days... and Bad Days

Well I am playing a little catch up here...

How about some sweet Father's Day hugs?
 
"Not all heros wear capes" is right. As I said before Mike has been Super Dad this month. For Father's Day he got brown stuff... some grasshopper cookies, and some mulch.


This mulch was technically my birthday present, but it counted for his gift too since it gobbled up all the discretionary money.  Read more about it here. We spent most of the day spreading mulch, but luckily my parents were still in town and we went to the Highland splash park with the other birthday girl (Dana).

Then for dinner my parents took us to the Cheesecake Factory... my favorite! Let me just pause here and say I remember my parents taking us to dinner on our 16th birthday at a fancy steak house... like it was yesterday!!! I still feel the same age, but my life has almost doubled since then. Noelle really rubbed it in with a card that said, "As much fun as two fifteen year olds!"  That really put things in perspective. There is no way around it, I am getting old.

Grandma and Maddie

 Grandpa and Ella

This was the last time we saw Ella looking happy for a good week. Later that night she started throwing up and didn't stop for four days straight. I wish we could trace it back to the source and have some answers, but my best guess is cryptosporidiosis from the splash park.

Poor thing slept on the couch or chair for a week. She even got a bruise on her forehead from hitting it on the toilet seat. I kept thinking she would sleep it off and sit up and be able to eat again, but it dragged on and on. She didn't like pediayte and just begged for water, which she usually threw up. She had a few popsicles and a bite of fruit here or there, but they all came up too. I talked with nurses and doctors about keeping her hydrated, and they said as long as she still has tears and saliva she was okay, so we kept a careful watch on things. We prayed and worried a lot, but just kept trying to give her fluids. By the end she was too weak to even sit up and we gave her fluids with those little medicine syringes.

Somehow we all survived the long week. During all of this I spent many hours doing flowers for a wedding and prepared and went on our young women 4th year hike, leaving her in Daddy's care. Finally, Saturday she was able to eat some applesauce and cereal. Mike weighed her and we discovered she had lost about 7 pounds (20% of her body weight). She looks like a skeleton. We were startled when she started talking again, it was so good to hear her voice! She is still regaining strength but every day seems a little bit better. We are so thankful our little Ella is back!

Monday, June 25, 2012

Swan Lake Songbird

Maddie's dance recital was the day after I returned from camp. In fact, Mike (Super Dad) took her to dress rehearsal and pictures while I was gone, meaning her did her hair and make-up himself! We meant to practice before I left but didn't find the time, so I gave him detailed instructions and I hear he did a great job! He was pretty proud of how it all went off without a hitch, and it was fun to watch him take a bigger part in Maddie's performance.

Maddie had two costume malfunctions, one being right before the performance. We took her backstage and a nice seamstress hot glued her sequins back on. 

Maddie loved dancing with her friend Karlee again this year! They are cute little buddies.

We did last minute squeezes and pictures before leaving Maddie with her class mom during the performance.

I wish I could have taken video of the performance but they don't let you. She was a beautiful little ballerina! She really led her class in remembering what came next, and we were pretty impressed with her port de bras (arms) and and stage presence. She has grown so much this year.

We love our little songbird. It was nice to have Grandma and Grandpa there too (they even brought Dana's boys with them... it was a long couple of hours with four squirmy kids in the audience. Thanks guys!!) 


Camp Preview




Girls' Camp rocked.  Combine beautiful mountains with beautiful girls, add in amazing leaders, comfy amenities, and no worries (hakuna matata).... and you've got one magical week!  I wish I could tell every detail, but I took over 500 pictures and don't know where to even start. One of our priesthood leaders also took photos all week and volunteered to make a video/slideshow of everything. I will have to share that when it's done.

The fact is I could've stayed another week. I missed kissing my kids cheeks, but impressively Mike enjoyed being on his own with the kids and proved that he's Super Dad! My mom came to help too and I didn't worry one bit about things at home.

About halfway through (on Wednesday) I took the 2nd and 3rd year girls on a hike and when we got to the top of a mountain I suddenly received cell reception and got 21 text messages in a row. We laughed at my phone chiming over and over, and I was very amused by Mike's narrative of what was going on at home. I'll share some of it:

"Taught neighbors how to play fox and the pie. Mowed back lawn. Girls took nap. Emailed notes from meeting. Went to IFA and redbox. Got donuts from Ben. Cooking, I mean heating dinner. Ty seems to cry easily when I leave the room. Maddie said you were coming home in 55 weeks!

Maddie wanted to learn how babies get in your belly for FHE.

Babies all bathed and in bed. Bath time is crazy. Ella won't let me sing the temple song. She is holding out till you get home. She said her stomach hurt at dinner and wouldn't eat her enchilada. She wants to save it to eat on Friday when you get home.

Fertilized the lawn. Heard from Jen (YW Pres) that you are going a fantastic job. A little cold though.

Putting the kids down for a nap and then going to get Maddie a kick-stand when they awake.

Got Maddie a kick-stand. Ella really wanted to come home with a bike that had training wheels. Bribed her with candy. Sorry for any negative impact this may have in the future. Was boiling water when Seth W. came over and invited us over for hot dogs. Aborted dinner plans and learned that Tyler could drink root beer till the cows come home. Gave the kids another bath because they were sticky and smelled like camp fire. Maddie and Ella were having a ball wrestling in the tub. Your mom and dad arrived safely.

Tyler got his new gift from your parents today. We zoomed around the kitchen a few times. Thought I'd go to work today even though I'd rather hang out with the kids. Took out the garbage. I know you are on the edge of your seat at this point.

Thinking about getting mulch on Saturday morning. Love you babe!

'Why is a praying mantis brave when the moon shines?' -Ella

Had fun playing freeze tag and fox and the pie with the kids tonight. Tried to tell the temperature outside based on the number of cricket chirps. Read entries in the dictionary at the request of Maddie and Ella. Fajitas were yummy. Rode with the bike trailer, stopped at a popsicle stand for root beer popsicles for all. Two days in a row that Tyler get root beer flavored sugar in his bloodstream.

Ella just had an accident. I kept the light off so I'll have to assess the damage in the morning.
Ty woke up at about 7:05 today. Yesterday I woke him up at around 8. He's a yummy buddy!

I'm ready for my Missy to be home. Can't wait to see you."

It was good to come home, but my kids all stared at me blankly and it took a few minutes for them to warm up to me. Weird! Honestly it was hard to pick up my burdens where I left them at home, but one thing I tried to teach the young women is that they can do hard things. This last week (since camp) has been extremely hard, but again as we learned at camp, when we build our lives on a foundation of faith, on the Rock of Christ, he will sustain us and we will be able to do whatever is asked of us. I can be ROCK SOLID!


Thursday, June 7, 2012

Paper Dolls & Karaoke

We had a lesson on "multiplying and replenishing the earth" this week, so we made paper dolls that multiply!

I love how simple paper and scissors can create such wonder for my girls. They spent hours gluing on sparkles and coloring their dolls!

They are also loving the karaoke machine I got for girls' camp. There's just something so enticing about hearing your own voice coming out of a speaker! Thus far, we have not been able to figure out how to get words on the TV... I guess you have to have a special CD? Any simpler ideas for singing with the YW in the mountains? Mike says there are probably iPhone or iPad apps for karaoke... we do have electricity but the simpler the better!

  
Again related to camp, I finally got new glasses after 11 years! Mine were totally busted (not to mention outdated) and I felt like I should be able to see at night when I am sleeping in a cabin with 16 girls. :) I went out on a limb and chose purple blingy ones, and I'm kinda loving them!

Monday, June 4, 2012

Baby is 1

 Our little Ty Ty has been alive for a year. I can't believe how fast time flies.

He noticed these right away... hmmm, that looks fun.

He looked snazzy all dresses up for church. He is getting so smart--I love how he knows where shoes go and tries to put them on.

At this age I always call my babies monkeys because they show such curiosity exploring the world around them. Tyler also has a Curious George stuffed animal on his shelf, so this theme was a no-brainer!

My friend Erin told me about this idea. Just some yellow paper products and electrical tape and you've got "man with the yellow hat" hats!

In fact we had quite a few men with yellow hats.


We had the Sherwoods over as usual... they are our go-to birthday bashers! These baby cousins are so cute together.

Opening presents was pretty entertaining. All the kids wanted in on the fun, but Tyler did get a few good rips.

He doesn't look too thrilled about this "Bananas over Mommy" outfit, but that's because someone stole the sippee cup he had just opened! He needed some new ones and they ended up being the favorite present.

Nevermind the See & Say... I have my sippee.

Daxton chose his cousin a cute John Deere tractor... which I'm sure he would love but somebody stowed it in a safe place and we can't find it! *Ha it was in the princess car. :)

Just thought I would include a shot of the mayhem.

Tyler was a little confused by the singing and attention on him. I love his sideways look!

He knew he wanted some of that white stuff! It was banana bread made in layer pans with chocolate chips, and smothered with cream cheese frosting. Yum.
We have a Curious George book about an ice cream shop, so we had to have banana splits too.



Ty had a big piece and he cleaned it up no problem!

I am happy he is growing and progressing, but I have to say I am really mourning the end of his babyhood. He is just so sweet and yummy, and he doesn't know how to be naughty yet. I have had to wean him so I can go to Girls' Camp next week, and I've actually shed a few tears over it. I just love having a baby in the house to kiss on and snuggle, and they are so much easier than preschoolers with minds of their own!
  
Here's a couple of examples of him being a monkey... just exploring and being silly. He pushed his basket all the way down the hall and into his room.

 
Gotta love this monkey bum! The orange stripes and bars make him look like an inmate! I'm trying to trap him as a baby forever.